You’ve had moments where you wanted to give up on love. We all have.You sink your time, energy, and emotion into a guy, only to determine, after a long, tortuous process, that he is not the man you hoped he’d be and not the man you need him to be. You look inside at […]
Monthly Archives: November 2020
Cliches are cliches for a reason. Often, they have a solid basis in truth. But what happens when you believe in a cliche so deeply that it actually sabotages your desire to have a successful long-term relationship? Do you even know some of the deep-seated beliefs you hold that are preventing you from achieving your […]
Your job is demanding. You are a single mom with lots of responsibilities. You feel like dating is one huge time suck. As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women who have everything but the guy, I am quite familiar with women who are too busy to date. And while I’m in no position […]
You go online and browse through men. You know what you’re attracted to: six feet tall, Master’s degree, six-figure income, same religion, and political beliefs, fit, handsome. You set your search criteria to get all these traits and come to the conclusion that dating sites suck and there are virtually no men out there […]
Let’s face it: It’s lonely out there. And if you’ve been alone for a while and you have a vision of what you want your life to look like, I can appreciate if finding love is your top priority. It’s mine, too and I only work with women who are deadly serious about it. But […]
Age is just a number. If you’re 60, I assume you feel 50. If you’re 50, I assume you feel 40, and so on. But when it comes to dating – specifically online dating – age isn’t just a number. It’s a real thing that you have to contend with, an obstacle that needs to […]
Yet again, you find yourself in a dead-end relationship. You suffered silently. You hoped he would change. You haven’t been happy for a while but you didn’t do anything about it. How did you get here? And what can you do in the future to ensure this never happens again? In this short Love U […]
As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I understand how hard it is for you. You go online and you swipe through thousands of guys. The guys you’re not attracted to pursue you hard. The guys you like the most are wildly inconsistent and don’t follow through. You have moments of despair, wondering […]
I just celebrated my 12th anniversary this weekend. It was a muted affair because of the pandemic but it was no less sweet. We slept in until 9am. I went to Zoom Sunday school with my daughter and we collaborated on an art project. We went back upstairs for breakfast in bed made by the […]
Hearing the words “I love you” from a boyfriend feels like the most important thing in the world and we imbue it with great meaning. It means he’s invested in you. It means he’s thinking of a future. It means he wants to be with you forever. At least that’s what you think at the […]