Monthly Archives: March 2020

I started dating a guy, John, last year who had a bad reputation for being a creep. I had just divorced my husband of 16 years and was out on my own for the first time in my life (had a kid and married at 17) so I’d like to say I was not exactly […]

Mostly (single) people read this blog. And yet, I’m always surprised when those who have voluntarily found their way here because they were looking for dating and relationship advice insist that not only do they have it all figured out but they would rather be single than in a relationship. It’s like going to the […]

I’ve been dating this guy since New Years so just a month now. It’s going really well. I don’t normally believe in soul mates but I feel like we’re connected in such a different way than I’ve experienced before. So he got out a 3 year relationship in October, and from the start of us […]

I am a professional at rejection and failure. That is no joke. If I’m ever allowed to leave the house again, I’m going to give corporate speeches on this very subject. I was a virgin until college. I wrote a dozen screenplays and fifteen sitcoms and made less than $10,000 in my Hollywood writing career. […]

Hey Evan. I have had a pattern of being attracted to emotionally ‘broken’ or emotionally unavailable men. I thought I was over this since doing counselling but I’m still drawn to this type of man. Worst yet I pull away once I feel a love interest is getting too close. How can I break this […]

In the past 24 hrs, the NBA suspended its season, Italy quarantined the whole country, stocks dropped by 20% from their peak, and travel from Europe was banned for 30 days. Most of this happened last night while I was coaching a group of smart, strong, successful women who want to create healthy relationships in […]

There are two things about which I am obsessed with reading: 1: The current American president and the fascination with how many people can support him despite his inherent lack of honesty and character. 2: Far-left cancel culture, which has tried to take down liberals from Stephen Colbert to Matt Damon to Joe Biden for […]

My kids are straight-up gender stereotypes. My 7-year-old son can add up three-digit numbers in his head. He can build a Magnetile structure that Frank Gehry would envy. He is fiercely competitive on the baseball, basketball and soccer fields. He hates being told what to do, makes insensitive comments to his friends and family members […]