It’s a pretty weird time to be dating. Even so, Love U members are meeting wonderful, highly motivated men, even during this pandemic. So how can you tell if a guy is keeping busy or stringing you along until he finds someone he likes better? Check out this Love U Podcast to get clear […]
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You ever go out on an incredible date? The connection was real, the chemistry is intense, and you feel like you just met someone with real long-term potential? Of course, you have. But what usually happens afterward? Look at your history and you’ll see: there’s virtually no correlation between an amazing first date and […]
When I started doing this in 2003, there were no other dating coaches. There was no texting. There was no iPhone. There was no Facebook. There was no Tinder. There was no Instagram. There were no dick pics. It was a simpler time. By 2006, I had written two books, been featured in dozens of […]
These are dark times in the United States. The worst pandemic in 100 years. The worst economic crisis since the Great Depression. The worst social outrage since the late 60’s. All happening at once. This once-in-a-lifetime confluence of events has affected different people differently. I have friends who are extremely careful about social distancing and […]
First of all, I would like to thank you for all the invaluable help you give us with men and how to find love. I read your blog religiously and I’ve bought several of your books. I know you’ve already talked about age in your blog, specifically how people, both men and women, prefer to […]
We all know that a great romantic relationship is one of the best predictors of future happiness, yet most people never consider taking a class on love. Similarly, social skills are one of the best predictors of success in life, and yet you don’t see too many classes or schools on how to develop them. […]
I have been in a long-term relationship for just over 3 years now. We went on a “break” for about a month a year ago after I got pregnant and had to go through an abortion which was very difficult for both of us and we needed time apart as I wasn’t able to handle […]
“Never count on a man,” her father had told her. “They will always let you down.” So she didn’t, and they still did. Pretty powerful headline, huh? This Modern Love essay in the New York Times sounds like it was directly downloaded from the memories of any of my Love U coaching clients. Let me […]
I’ve been in a relationship with a man for 7 months that I’ve been acquainted with for years. In the beginning I was not interested at all and actually held a 6 year long grudge against him. He worked VERY hard for 2 months to get a first date with me and another month to […]
It’s something that, for some reason, women aren’t encouraged to talk about. It’s something that some think connotes weakness. …like a conservative, 1950’s housewife instead of a 21st century independent woman. It’s something that certain people take to mean you are like a conservative, 1950’s housewife instead of a 21st century independent woman. And it’s […]