I just celebrated my 12th anniversary this weekend. It was a muted affair because of the pandemic but it was no less sweet. We slept in until 9am. I went to Zoom Sunday school with my daughter and we collaborated on an art project. We went back upstairs for breakfast in bed made by the […]
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Hearing the words “I love you” from a boyfriend feels like the most important thing in the world and we imbue it with great meaning. It means he’s invested in you. It means he’s thinking of a future. It means he wants to be with you forever. At least that’s what you think at the […]
It’s a jungle out there. There are guys who love bomb you, then pull away. There are guys who are needy, clingy, and controlling. There are guys who say they want to find love and once they get it, do everything they can to sabotage things. And the problem is that these guys don’t come […]
Congratulations! You’re in a small percentage of women who have taken the time to wonder how you could do things better. Virtually no men have asked this question which is why I’m answering it for you today. Stick around to learn the most powerful thing you can do to make him want to commit […]
Every relationship you’ve ever had ultimately disappeared or disappointed. But what if I told you that you’ve been preparing your whole life for this moment? What if I told you that you were THIS close to a relationship breakthrough? Stick around to discover why you’ve never been closer to lasting love than you are today. […]
You’ve just started seeing a guy and you’re a little nervous. He seems interested but you know, full well, that guys often show interest at the beginning and then do the slow fade, breadcrumb, random text thing. Next thing you know, you feel like you’re being strung along and as long as you hear from […]
Nobody likes the word picky. Picky suggests that there’s something wrong with you, that if you didn’t have such high standards, you’d already be married by now. Picky sounds like your fault. So let’s get away from the word picky. Today’s Love U Podcast is not going to tell you whether you’re too picky; it […]
I hope you’re having a great fall. I sure am. Because of my good fortune in love, I’m always thinking of my greater mission: Helping smart, strong, successful women understand men and make healthy relationship choices. It sounds simple and straightforward and yet there are millions of women who struggle to do those very things. […]
When you’ve been burned by love, over and over, it’s hard to trust your judgment. If you’ve never had a lasting relationship with a man where you could relax, let down your guard, and know he would accept you, in full, for the rest of your life, why would you think that it would […]
You go to a dating site. You set your age criteria: 5 years older. 5 years younger. Done. You wonder why the younger men don’t seem to respond as much. You wonder why men who are FAR older than you keep responding. It’s all very frustrating and sometimes emotional. What you didn’t know was […]