Dating Negative Nancy

No, No Dating Negative Nancy

When you are writing your profile there are some ways to give you an edge on finding a date faster.  Stay away from negativity.  If you have an upbeat profile that talks about things that you like and enjoy doing then you will have a better chance at meeting people.  Most people find negative talk as a real downer and tend to stay away from it.  Instead of writing about the things that you hate or dislike just write what you really find entertaining and fun.

A dating site profile that has a more positive beat to it is more likely to attract someone to it and thus, you.  People want to be with a winner and a winner has a really positive vibe.  Negative speak and energy pushes people away.  Obviously, that isn’t what you are attempting to do if you have a profile on a dating site.

In keeping with this upbeat vibe, also try to keep your profile current and fun.  A good way to do that is to have fun with your profile photos.  Change them up and show off some of the ways that you can be silly or humorous.  This is a good way to attract someone that is fun and knows how to have a good time.  Throw in a little pizzazz with your writing. 

Instead of saying, “I went to the park,” tell a story, make it exciting, and include the details that you enjoyed about the park.  The more descriptive you are the better.  Spend a little time in writing your profile until it reads like an excerpt out of an adventure magazine.

If you want to really focus your profile on the people that you want to meet then include a little more information about what you are looking for.  Instead of saying that you want to find someone, be a little more specific.  You can mention the age range, or personal preferences, that way it will let someone know right away if they could be a match for you or not.